tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6748610139243895287.post3132987189148790866..comments2018-11-20T16:20:21.426-06:00Comments on Equal Time: It's just that feeling you have...Equal Timehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15268022296792109140noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6748610139243895287.post-71990038929951587242008-02-21T15:40:00.000-06:002008-02-21T15:40:00.000-06:00This has happened often over the years with severa...This has happened often over the years with several individuals. It's really hard to articulate but you have done it well. I have sensed this with a staff pastor while working on a project together in an area of my expertise. Nevertheless, he just seemed to want to do what he wanted to do or what his spouse wanted. I couldn't put my finger on it. <BR/>What are your thoughts re:<BR/>when you enter a room or a food line and they never seem to take the initiative to exchange pleasantries or rarely call you by your title? It's almost like they are pretending you're not there or they don't want to acknowledge your presence in front of others. I generally have to speak first.<BR/><BR/>What if you gave a directive in front of others and later they told you they wish you had pulled them to the side, what would you say? It was something very small that needed taken care of right then . Therefore, when I saw them in passing , I told them. It was like his ego was insulted or he didn't want others to think he answers to me. I would really like to know your thoughts on this? He is up for his review and I am wondering how to approach this? Or if I should say anything based on my hunches or not.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6748610139243895287.post-81097752539642857482008-01-07T00:40:00.000-06:002008-01-07T00:40:00.000-06:00Deanna, I just sat here with tears streaming down ...Deanna, I just sat here with tears streaming down my face, as you know my husband and I lead a work where we worked together as a senior pastoral couple. We are in a church now that has the same view as aka Pastor greg.They ask me to preach from time to time but in a evening event when there is not many people and if I bring up something in a staff meeting (I am on staff as an admininstrator of the church) concering maybe a scripture that is used out of context I sense the eyes rolling and feel the men saying here we go again. Its amazing how you pick it up time and time again. Please continue to pray for us. love DeborahDeborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04343420798357151722noreply@blogger.com